Being a client centered, non-pathologising practice, you will decide which area/s iny our life to work on, and according to how much time and resources you have available. Let’s plan.
WHAT I DO
Great for shorter term goals, personal development and self awareness.
Together, we’ll identify patterns of your target areas
for applying personalised, mindful ways of changing
behaviors and outcomes.
Setting goals, using language and
tone differently, role playing for confidence and practice, and
learning somatic techniques for grounding and calming the
nervous system.
During Counselling, psycho- education is provided where you
learn about your Attachment Style combined with learning
about your Window of Tolerance, and how to best manage
emotions that feel overwhelming (anxiety, rage, grief) or where you feel numb, withdrawn (depression, grief).
Counselling with Elaine is a safe, non-judgmental,
compassionate and client centered experience that will lift
confidence and optimism in your being and support your
innermost wish for authentic ease in your life.
Counselling is good for a variety of reasons such as managing
anxiety, anger, impulsivity, mood swings, living with grief and loss,
feelings of depression or painful feelings, and improving the all important relationship - with yourSelf.
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What is Psychotherapy? Generally, it’s a longer-term approach whose
intention is to discover the origins of our physical, emotional, or moral
injuries, experienced with or without awareness, when very young or older.
Neuroscience has proved through neuroimaging, that chronic or
traumatic experiences and associated emotions can remain lodged (not
processed in our reasoning) in our nervous systems. This is a normal and
hardwired survival response in humans and mammals. In psychotherapy
there is utmost understanding, compassion and respect for how we have
adapted in threatening situations in the past and how is translates to our
lives and relationships in not so favourable ways.
With neuroscientific knowledge and proven interventions, we can confidently journey deeper into our psyche and
discover why some feelings come over us that we have no words for and seemingly no control over or those moments of inexplicable fear
that grip and paralyse us, the silent forces that cause us to withdraw, and avoid. We can get to the bottom of those impulses, voices
and beliefs that seem to take over and ‘drive our bus, and truly
understand in the felt sense and in our developing wisdom, that they are
the voices and narratives (often developed from very young) that by counter intuitive and complex design, protect our systems from ever experiencing unbearable emotions, yet still find a way to
show themselves, vent, escape. This is what we want to heal.
Firstly you will embody new resources such as specific breathing and grounding practices, tapping in peaceful place, wisdom or nurturing/ protective figures , combined with
understanding your Window of Tolerance and unblending from Parts. This will prepare you for processing strong emotions without being overwhelmed. This is
termed Resilience. You will gain the ability maintain dual awareness while you safely unburden and heal your nervous system. Bound energy in survival patterns will no longer fuel unwanted ways of being such as tension, pain, depression, gut wrenching
anxiety and rage, will transform to pure life energy, returned to your system.
You will feel lighter without the burdens and more alive than ever.
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Learning how to truly relax, is in of itself a therapeutic modality. Being
able to centre and ground ourselves is a lost skill for the majority of us.
Sleep or other external aids and substances do not afford us the
benefits that authentic conscious relaxation endows.
Your choice of seated or laying down relaxation (with or without
gentle postures), combined with a personalised script (Yoga Nidra and installation of peaceful/safe space) that
you can return to at any time.
In some cases, clients experience resolution of tension and pain. Yoga and somatic awareness harness the implicit healing power of the body, utilising the bodys’ own chemistry to alter
our state of mind and cause natural ease and restful minds.
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Please complete the contact form here with your concerns and preferred contact method. I’ll respond within 24 hours to begin our connection.
Your first session is for mutual understanding. Forms can be completed beforehand. A free 20-minute phone call is also available by appointment.
Sessions are held in my peaceful home office. Face-to-face is ideal, though Zoom is available with consideration for emotional readiness and personal support.
Therapy isn’t always linear. After finishing, you’re welcome to return anytime for top-up sessions when life invites another round of healing or growth.
Kahlil Gibran
Internal Family Systems psychotherapy, Attachment Style theory, Polyvagal Theory, Dual Awareness (Mindful techniques), Somatic Experience informed, EMDR informed, Guided Yoga, Relaxation and Breathing techniques, Counselling and CBT
To gain some authentic relief, learn new skills and understanding about your specific concern, a minimum of 3 weeks, preferably 6 weeks. Of course you choose the duration according to your resources and target a specific concern to start with. Some folks will wish to continue if they find they are 'onto' something more (there is always more lol). A commitment of a few months is ideal.
$95 per session however upon application, I will provide a multi-session pass paid up front.
Listen inside...are you feeling the pull of your inner Self guiding you to take yet another step on your journey? We heal and learn in company. Trusted others can help us see our blind spots, much like you can see theirs, it’s always more difficult to see our own.
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